All about role-play

5 min read · Sex life

Scientists from London established that 66% of Brits during sex want their partners to change into themed clothes. And while you are afraid to admit to yourself that this or that scenario excites you, others act out all of the desires with their partner. If you keep imagining yourself in different scenarios more and more often, it's time to learn the popular role-plays and their rules.

Where to start? The very first question that pops up for those who want to try this erotic element. First you should do the following:

Discuss the idea with your partner

There is no need to be afraid or feel shy when it comes to talking about sex. On the contrary, you should be able to talk to your significant other about any intimate topics. And sexual role-play is no exception. It will be worse if you suddenly appear in front of them in a superhero costume: they may simply get confused or even start laughing in your face.

Set the rules of the play

Agree with your partner what is acceptable to you and what is beyond the limits of what is allowed. Come up with safe words that you will use if the play goes too far. With their help, you will understand if the partner does not like something. Safe words come from BDSM, but they can also be used in normal sex. But do not choose the words "Stop", "Enough". The partner can perceive them as part of a role-play. It is better to choose words that are not associated with sex at all (for example, spaghetti). If your partner's mouth is busy and they are not able to say a stop word, make a stop gesture.

Take care of the props

To make things happen, you don't necessarily have to go to a sex shop. Turn on your imagination. Better yet, explore the contents of your wardrobe and kitchen cabinets. There will surely be a classic black suit, tie, candles, spatulas.

Here are 4 popular role-play scenarios:

Manager and employee

Which of you will be in the role of the boss-it's up to you. Choose appropriate clothing. You will have to use the classic suit that we have mentioned above. And ask your partner to wear a mini-skirt and a plunging neck blouse. And also come up with a reason why the employee came to the boss. Perhaps that is a salary increase request. Or just brought some documents to sign.

Sex with a stranger

This scenario will help to refresh your relationship. It is better to start the game outside the house. For example, pretending to see each other for the first time at a club or a bar. Ask the girl to change her look in some way: put on a wig or clothes that she has not worn before. Another option for this kind of role is sex with a call girl.

College professor and student

Or another option – a student and a young teacher. If it is her being the student, then all you need from the props is a short skirt, knee socks and a couple of textbooks.

Massage therapist and client

The necessary props are massage oil or oil-based gel lubricant. The first does not dry out on the body for a few minutes, and the second will allow you to gradually move on to erotic massage.